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Giving Advice: Should, Ought To and If I Were You…

August 5, 2026 Β· Sourov Β· 2 min read

5-Minute English Lab Β· B1 Intermediate

🌟 Giving Advice: Should, Ought To and If I Were You…

⏱ 5 minutes · PPP · Functional Language & Grammar

πŸ’¬ From my own experience: New teachers often ask me: ‘What should I do when a student doesn’t understand?’ I always say: ‘If I were you, I’d try a different example before explaining again β€” never repeat the same explanation louder.’ Advice is an art form.

🎯 By the end of this 5 minutes, you can:

give and respond to advice using should / shouldn’t, ought to, if I were you, why don’t you.

Language Focus:

You should try…You shouldn’t…If I were you, I’d…Why don’t you…?Have you thought about…?

πŸ“– Quick Explanation

English has several ways to give advice, from strong to gentle:

Expression Strength Example
You should / shouldn’t Strong You should practise every day.
You ought to Moderate (more formal) You ought to ask for help.
If I were you, I’d… Friendly/personal If I were you, I’d speak to your manager.
Why don’t you…? Gentle/suggestion Why don’t you try a different approach?

Grammar note: Should / ought to are followed by the base verb (infinitive without to) β€” except ought to which keeps the to: You ought to try.

✏️ Practice

Task 1: Choose the right form

Complete with should/shouldn’t, ought to, or if I were you:
1. You ___ arrive late to a job interview. (negative)
2. ___, I’d research the company before applying.
3. You ___ to practise your presentation out loud.

πŸ’‘ Show answer
1. shouldn’t Β· 2. If I were you Β· 3. ought

Task 2: Transform the advice

Give the same advice using 3 different forms:
Problem: My student keeps making the same grammar mistake.

πŸ’‘ Show answer
You should ask them to write it correctly 5 times. / If I were you, I’d use a different context to explain it. / Why don’t you try a grammar game?

Task 3: What would you say?

A friend says: ‘I’m nervous about speaking English at work.’ Write 3 pieces of advice using 3 different expressions.

πŸ’‘ Show answer
You should practise with a native speaker. / If I were you, I’d prepare key phrases before each meeting. / Why don’t you join an English conversation club?

πŸ—£ Use It Now

Write a short ‘advice column’ response. Someone wrote: ‘I’ve been learning English for two years but I’m still afraid to speak. Help!’ Write 4 sentences of advice using at least 3 different expressions from today’s lesson.

βœ… Quick Self-Check



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