Body Language at Work: What English Doesn’t Say
Body Language at Work: What English Doesn’t Say
In twelve years of hospitality, I learned to read a table before I reached it. A couple sitting back with arms crossed β give them space. A family leaning forward, pointing at menus β they need help now. The best servers communicate without speaking. That’s true in classrooms too: a student slumped in a chair at 9 a.m. on a Monday is not lazy β they’re tired. Read the room.
- Use vocabulary for non-verbal communication
- Describe what body language signals in English
- Understand cultural differences in eye contact and space
eye contact β looking directly at someone’s eyes
open posture β arms uncrossed, body facing forward = welcoming
closed posture β arms crossed, body turned away = defensive
mirroring β copying someone’s posture (builds trust)
personal space β comfortable distance between people (varies by culture)
π§ Language focus: verbs for body language
We maintain eye contact (not ‘do’).
We adopt an open posture (not ‘have’).
We invade someone’s personal space (not ‘enter’).
Collocations matter β learn the verb with the noun.
Watch a partner for 30 seconds while they speak about any topic. Write: one thing their body said that their words didn’t. Share and discuss.
Play a short clip with the sound off. Ask students: what is happening? Who has power? Are they friends? Reading images builds communication awareness and vocabulary simultaneously.
English language content. Not a substitute for qualified instruction.
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